de l'hospital

semalam aku dikejutkan ngan berita yg ayahku masuk wad. t'kejut gler aku yelah bayangkan aku bgn kol 5 pagi, turun2 je mak aku ade kat bawah. x leh tdo. die ckp abah msk hospital tgh mlm smlm. aku x tau nak wat ape. lps fkr lame2 aku decide nk join konvoi blk johor pg tu. aku call manager aku apply 2 ari emergency leave. naisb baik hotel x bz!

kitorg b'tlk lmbt sbb tunggu kakak aku settlekan few thngs kt ofis. smpi t'tidor aku d'buatnye! last2 kitorg b'tlk kol 12.30 tngahari n stop kejap kt ayer keroh sbb nk solat. smpi dlm kol 4 lebih trs jumpe abah. alhamdulillah abah sht cumefood poisoning je. rupa-rupanye abah sakit mcm aku!

nk dijadikan cite, few days earlier aku pn x chat. muntah2, cirit birit, demam semua ade. tp aku amek mc 1 ari je, sbb bnyk sgt 'drama' kt hotel smpi x ckp org! so diorg bg drip kt abah, n bg 'diabetic diet' kt abah. sbb diorg suspect kencing manis. hopefully x de ape2 lah kan.

skang aku kt kl. x snggup nk cuti lame2. abah pn nmpk dh ok. selera mkn pn dh b'tmbh! alhamdulillah. dlm bas td ade org ingt aku budak lg! kelass!!! terima kaseh jelah! biaselah dlm bas td aku mengelamun BANYAK. psl future aku. kalo ikutkan aku tgh bingung sbnrnye. aku tau aku x kan lame keje hotel ni tp aku x tau nk keje ape lg. skang tgh recession lg lah ssh nk carik keje! nk smbg blaja tp... x tau nk amek course ape n kt mane?

kalo aku nk smbg blaja mksdnye aku kene crk scholarshiplah! n kene start b'jimat sbb tkt x ckp duit! x leh shopping sakan lg....huhu

He’s just not that into you

When I first heard the phrase I was like “ mcm pernah dgr tapi dimana ya?”. Some people say alah cite br Jen Anniston tu ngan Drew Barrymore, Scarlet Johansson bla bla. But no, I swear I heard it somewhere. Rupa-rupanya that was the title of the book yang kakak aku sibuk bace after die break wt her boyfriend. He’sjust not that into you. Mula-mulanye aku make fun of her well … not in front of her though. I was like “ ana selalu bace buku2 macam ni?”.

After a few months and after people making such a big fuss about the movie aku pun bacelah buku tu yg selama ni asyik aku pandang je kat meja kakak aku tu. Well here’s a few things from the book yg aku btl2 suke and setuju…

• He’s just not that into you if he’s not asking you out because if he likes you, trust me, he will ask you out
• If you can find him, then he can find you. if he wants to find you, he will
• You are good enough to be asked out
• He’s just not that into you if he’s not calling you… men know how to use the phone
  If he’s not calling you, it’s because you are not on his mind
• “busy” is another word for xxxhole. Xxxhole is anther word for the guy you’re dating
• He’s just not that into you if he’s not dating you … hanging out is not dating
• There’s a guy out there who will want to tell everyone that he’s your boyfriend. Quit goofing around and go find him
• A cheater only cheats himself, because he doesn’t get to be with you
• There’s a guy out there who wants to marry you
• Cut him off. Let him miss you
• He’s just not that into you if he’s disappeared on you
• No answer is your answer
• There’s no mystery- he’s gone and he wasn’t good enough for you
• He’s just not that into you if he’s married ( and other insane variations of being unavailable)
• There are cool, loving single men in the world. Find one of them to go out with
• You are not easily forgotten. Let him find you when he’s ready
• You deserve to be with someone who is nice to you all the time
• Make a space in your life for the glorious things you deserve
• Have faith. What other choice is there?
• I will not go out wt a man who hasn’t asked me out first
• I will not go out wt a man who keeps me waiting by the phone
• I will not, under any circumstances, spend my precious time wt a man who has already rejected me
  

Moral of the story is…. He’s an xxxhole and I deserve better! Move on Hamidah Hamzah!!!

The "V" Day

I know as a Muslim and ‘Perempuan Melayu Terakhir” ehem ehem Valentines Day is not really our tradition but I really like the idea of people celebrating their love not only with their life partner but with their love ones. Even though I never really celebrate it but I wish I am. Berdosa ke kalo aku cakap macam tu?

Alah aku nk celebrate ngan sape? Kebetulan aku cuti that Saturday (after 6 days of working, 12 hours a day!). Imagine that! Memang aku x de life langsung! Keluar date pun asyik kene reschedule je! Sori beb! I knw you desrve better! Huhu….

Anyway I woke up quite late that Saturday morning and as usual Alin ada kat bawah. Lepas borak2 ngan die kitorg decide nk pi KlCC. Baanyak plan aku ari tu (cewah!) alah setakat nak beli kasut ( heel hitam aku hbs rabak kt depan!) malu betul bile pegi briefing lagi teruk bile yang perasan tu semua lelaki. Memang mata diorg tu macam mikroskop! Teliti semua bende! Nasib baiklah aku ni muka tembok!!! Hehe.

Kitorg pegi Nose after survey2 kasut ngan Aisyah my younger sister 2 weeks earlier. Actually kitorg suke ade satu kasut hitam ni punyelah perfect n selesa! Tp…. Design die mmg x kene ngan lngsng ngan imej ‘korporat” haha. In the end kitorg beli kasut hitam yg simple2 je murah plak tu! Jimat jimat...

N then ape lg movie time! Kitorg tgk Changeling. W’pun dh phone booking tp que pnjg gler! org gler pn x seramai tu! Cerita die oklah a bit slow n a bit pnjg aku ingt more than 3 hrs rupa2nya dlm 2 jam lbh je. Maybe aku x enjoy cite tu sbb I was distracted by a news yg mmg aku dh jangka akn aku terima tp x secepat ni. I think you know what that news was Am!

Terus terang aku ckp aku jst froze to death! Like the world stops 4 a while… maybe diorg pn berkabung untk aku haha. Tp… ape nk wat dh takdir. I believe in faith and I believe yg everythings happen wt a reason. That’s how I feel Am. I’ve already prepared for it. Biarlah hati aku hancur, biarlah aku nangis non stop. There’s nothing that I can do but doakan die n wish them every happiness.

Malam tu smpi almost 8 sbb kitorg carik sekolh alam shah sbb sbtu ni ade ujian ptd. Rupa2nya sklh sains selangor tu sekolah alam shah! Duh!!! Aku cpt2 mandi sbb mlm ni ade cite ‘becoming jane’ cerita kononnye abt my fav author…” Jane Austen”. Bile tgk cite tu aku nangis aku x tau nape. Maybe sbb aku dpt rase ape yg ‘Jane’ rase or aku br ‘sedar’ aftr my numbness. Ending of the movie mentioned yg both Jane and her elder sister x kawen. Alin ckp ngan aku…” Oh nak jd mcm Jane lh ni…’. Aku terdiam. Maybe…. I mean I’m a self confessed commitment-phobe yet I’m a hopeless romantic person who always dream of her happy ending. But realitinye there’s no such thing as happy ending. Happy ending only happens in movies or fairy tales…. well that's what I feel ... at least for now...