He’s just not that into you

When I first heard the phrase I was like “ mcm pernah dgr tapi dimana ya?”. Some people say alah cite br Jen Anniston tu ngan Drew Barrymore, Scarlet Johansson bla bla. But no, I swear I heard it somewhere. Rupa-rupanya that was the title of the book yang kakak aku sibuk bace after die break wt her boyfriend. He’sjust not that into you. Mula-mulanye aku make fun of her well … not in front of her though. I was like “ ana selalu bace buku2 macam ni?”.

After a few months and after people making such a big fuss about the movie aku pun bacelah buku tu yg selama ni asyik aku pandang je kat meja kakak aku tu. Well here’s a few things from the book yg aku btl2 suke and setuju…

• He’s just not that into you if he’s not asking you out because if he likes you, trust me, he will ask you out
• If you can find him, then he can find you. if he wants to find you, he will
• You are good enough to be asked out
• He’s just not that into you if he’s not calling you… men know how to use the phone
  If he’s not calling you, it’s because you are not on his mind
• “busy” is another word for xxxhole. Xxxhole is anther word for the guy you’re dating
• He’s just not that into you if he’s not dating you … hanging out is not dating
• There’s a guy out there who will want to tell everyone that he’s your boyfriend. Quit goofing around and go find him
• A cheater only cheats himself, because he doesn’t get to be with you
• There’s a guy out there who wants to marry you
• Cut him off. Let him miss you
• He’s just not that into you if he’s disappeared on you
• No answer is your answer
• There’s no mystery- he’s gone and he wasn’t good enough for you
• He’s just not that into you if he’s married ( and other insane variations of being unavailable)
• There are cool, loving single men in the world. Find one of them to go out with
• You are not easily forgotten. Let him find you when he’s ready
• You deserve to be with someone who is nice to you all the time
• Make a space in your life for the glorious things you deserve
• Have faith. What other choice is there?
• I will not go out wt a man who hasn’t asked me out first
• I will not go out wt a man who keeps me waiting by the phone
• I will not, under any circumstances, spend my precious time wt a man who has already rejected me
  

Moral of the story is…. He’s an xxxhole and I deserve better! Move on Hamidah Hamzah!!!